Friday, June 17, 2016

An Open Letter to LGBT Community, and Muslims, from a Faithful Catholic Cop; In Light of Orlando

 

            To those people with Same Sex Attraction: I am a faithful Catholic who happens to be a cop.  I am very sorry and deeply grieved at the horrendous atrocity and loss of the lives of loved ones and friends in Orlando.  I know no words can heal the wounds, physical and emotional, that were inflicted upon some of you and the communities you are in.  I know that feeling; that wound.  Every time one of my brothers or sisters in Law Enforcement is killed, I know the emotions.  I also know your communities must have greater anxiety and fear after such horrific hatred.

            I hope my words can diminish, in some minor way, your fears.  As a cop, I promise you I will treat you as I would anyone and everyone else.  Your lifestyle choices will have no effect on the quality of service I give to you and your communities. I will protect you.  That includes risking my life and even - God Forbid - dying to save you.  That is my commitment to you.

You have an absolute right to live in peace and have your views heard; I will do everything in my power to uphold those rights.

            As a faithful Catholic I want to also relieve some other fears you may have.  I do not hate you.  If the Catholic Church taught hate, I would not be Catholic.  I love you.  I will always love you.  Let me be totally honest: I do not agree with your lifestyle choices, but I love each and every one of you.  I absolutely respect your moral right to live in peace, and to have your views heard.  As Christ laid down His life for you, so I will lay my life down for you.  I want the best for you and your life.  Again, we will disagree on what we believe is the best way to live; and we can amicably talk about that sometime; but now is not that time.

            I know what it is to be hated for the choices you make in your life.  I choose to be a faithful Catholic and a cop.  I am hated by some for the first and by others for the second.  Hatred of people of any kind – even of those you disagree with – is absolutely wrong and should NEVER be tolerated.

            I love you, I respect you, I accept you as a person – made in the image and likeness of God, I will do whatever I can to eliminate all signs of unjust discrimination against you, I will walk with you to help you fulfill what God wants for you in your life.

You have my prayers, and my love.

            To the peaceful Muslim Community:  I also know your pain and suffering.  Every time a police officer crosses the line and commits a crime, or someone claiming to be Catholic does something awful, I feel what you must be going through right now.  I’ve walked through communities where, just because I wear a badge or a crucifix, I am looked upon with suspicion.

            I would like to relieve some of your fears as well.  If you are peace loving, and law abiding, as a cop, you are my ally.  I not only don’t look upon you with suspicion, I rely on you to help me keep our community, our homes and our loved ones safe.  Your beliefs will have no bearing on how I treat you as a person, or the quality of service I give you or your communities. I will protect you.  This includes risking my life or even – God Forbid – giving up my life to save you.

You have an absolute right to live in peace, have your views heard and live above unwarranted suspicion; I will do everything in my power to uphold those rights.

            I would also like to attempt to relieve some of your fears as a faithful Catholic.  I do not hate you; I love you. 

I know what it is to be accused and suspected without cause.  Catholics, since the very beginning of the United States, have been suspected, accused, discriminated against in law and practice.  Presidents have called us essentially second class citizens; we were not allowed to hold office in some states; and immigration laws – some still on the books – were passed to keep Catholics out of this country.  I can empathize with your plight. 

I believe that if we each pray from our hearts, God will hear us, because there is only One God and He revealed Himself to Abraham.  There are many things about who God is, His revelation to us and how He wants us to live our lives that we would disagree on; and there is a time and a place to amicably discuss that; this is not that time.

Christ laid down his life for you; so I will lay down my life for you.  I love you, I respect you, I accept you as a person – made in the image and likeness of God, I will do whatever I can to eliminate all signs of unjust discrimination against you, I will walk with you to help you fulfill what God wants for you in your life.

You have my prayers, and my love.

To all reading this:  Now is the time to eliminate hate.  NO I did not say eliminate or ignore disagreement or compromise beliefs; the two are mutually exclusive.  It is a fallacy of this fallen culture – perpetuated by all the letter news networks -  that says ‘because I disagree with you I therefore hate you.’ or ‘because I love that necessarily means I support all your choices and beliefs.’ 

Now is the time to show what true love is: love of people, not necessarily of choices or beliefs.  Love is a choice, not a feeling or intense emotion – another fallacy of this culture.  Love is willing the good, or wanting the best, for someone else, especially if it costs me something; i.e Sacrifice.  I may still disagree with your beliefs and choices; I love you.

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